
I am going through a dilemma these days. My 1-month old fairy girl, Siya, is not well. Some doctors say it is whooping cough, some pneumonia and one says it must be tuberculosis. I can’t help but pray that whatever it is gets cured soon. To add to it, my mat-leave has ended on 21st March, but I need to be with my little one at least for a few more months so she can recuperate and get started on her growth path. Now my dilemma is whether to join office so I can support my family financially or continue to be with my baby as long as she needs me. As is usual in such cases, my brain and my heart are at war with each other.
I am mulling over such thoughts and staring at the walls of my bedroom. Staring back at me is Winnie – The Pooh, my favorite Disney character.
I’ve always loved Pooh. He is innocent, silly, funny, crazy-for-hunny, extremely kind and a great friend to have. Things are always happening in 100-Acre-Woods where he lives with his buddies – Piglet, Tiger, Rabbit, Eeyore, Kanga, Roo, Owl, Gopher, Heffalump and Christopher. They are always helping each other, discovering new things and simply being friendly. Pooh stickers on my wall are my personal reminders for just what we need to learn today.
Under the mad rat race in every field – relationships, business – everything, there’s a fundamental ingredient. We are all trying to find happiness. And we can find happiness in doing something only if our doing helps, benefits or simply pleases some real person. No technology is great for its own sake. It’s usage to people – whether it helps them grow their business or stay connected or simply have fun, is the crux. No business is successful if while doing it you are sacrificing precious time with your family. No amount of money is worth having if you cannot spend it for the people you love.
I know some of you might call me impractical, an emotional fool, but think about it for a moment and you’ll understand why I am choosing to stay hungry, stay Pooh-ish, stay with my little one as long as it takes for her to be healthy again even if it means stretching hard on my family budget.
p.s. Excuse me Rashmi Bansal, for naming this post similar to your book “Stay Hungry Stay Foolish”.
p.s. In case you are wondering, the above image is a collage of snaps from my bedroom wall.
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nicely written and a wise decision….
and hope darling siya recovers asap…
Dear Varda,
We understand the ur situation and the feeling of ur deep pain.
We all pray to all mighty God for Soon rcovery of our beloved SIYA.
We appreciate ur decision to take care of SIYA .
We all r with u .
You will find very shortly all things will move in right direction in your favour
Thanks Indu.
hey Varada san, I truly appreciate your decision and am all for it. My wishes and prayers for little Sia..She’ll be fine sooner than u kow with u being there on her side. Take care and good luck:)
Thanks so much for your wishes.
Thanks, Yachu. Will need all your prayers and wishes…
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@seo, thanks for dropping by. My twitter name is varadasharma.